Hello, and welcome. My name is Bruce Simmons. As the reverse mortgage manager for American Liberty Mortgage here in the Denver-Metro area, I have spent nearly two decades helping retirees navigate the ins and outs of home equity.
If you are currently managing a fixed retirement income, keeping up with home maintenance, and wondering how to handle rising healthcare costs or unexpected expenses, you might be exploring your financial options. Perhaps you have heard conflicting opinions about reverse mortgages from friends, neighbors, or television ads.
It is completely normal to feel a little skeptical or cautious when researching financial products. That is why I always encourage my clients to take a deep breath, slow down, and get the facts before making any decisions. To help you evaluate whether a Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM) is right for your unique situation, I want to share three essential questions you should ask yourself.
Question 1: What Do You Want the Reverse Mortgage to Accomplish?
Before you dig deep into interest rates, loan terms, or paperwork, I always ask my clients one fundamental question: What do you want the reverse mortgage to do for you?
Cash flow is often the centerpiece of retirement planning. Whether you are living solely on Social Security or drawing from a retirement fund, unexpected expenses: like replacing a $10,000 furnace: can throw your budget into a loop. A reverse mortgage is a flexible tool that can be tailored to solve specific financial challenges:
- Eliminating Monthly Mortgage Payments: 80 to 90 percent of my clients over the years have had an existing loan against their home, such as a traditional mortgage or a home equity line of credit (HELOC) with an adjustable rate. Eliminating that monthly payment frees up cash immediately and lifts a heavy weight off your shoulders.
- Supplementing Monthly Income: If you own your home free and clear, we can set up a reverse mortgage to provide guaranteed monthly tax-free loan proceeds for a set period or for as long as you live in the home.
- Establishing an Emergency Line of Credit: Having a standby line of credit gives you financial security. Unlike a traditional HELOC where your payment increases when you draw funds, a reverse mortgage line of credit gives you access to funds whenever you need them without mandatory monthly repayments.
- Downsizing with a HECM for Purchase: If your current home is too large, and property taxes, utilities, and maintenance are draining your savings, you can use a reverse mortgage to purchase a new primary residence. This allows you to downsize, keep cash in your pocket or investments, and enjoy life with no monthly mortgage payments.

Every homeowner’s goals are different. I invite you to visit our Reverse Mortgage Analysis page to explore how these options align with your personal retirement strategy.
Question 2: Is This a Safe and Regulated Product?
It is natural to wonder whether a reverse mortgage is safe. Over the years, I have heard plenty of myths and misconceptions. Let me set the record straight: the FHA-insured HECM is one of the most strictly regulated and secure loan products available today.
Here are the key safety features built into the program to protect you:
- Mandatory HUD Counseling: Before you can move forward with an application, you must speak with an independent, HUD-approved housing counselor. Their job is to ensure you completely understand how the program works, verify your understanding of your responsibilities, and protect you from any high-pressure sales tactics.
- Non-Recourse Protection: One of the most important guarantees of a HECM is that it is a non-recourse loan. This means you or your estate will never owe more than the value of your home when it is sold. Even if your loan balance grows to exceed your home’s appraised value, neither you nor your heirs are ever personally responsible for the difference. The FHA mortgage insurance covers the shortfall.
- Strict Borrower Protections: You retain ownership of your home. As long as you fulfill your basic borrower responsibilities: living in the home as your primary residence, paying your property taxes and homeowner’s insurance, keeping the home properly maintained, and keeping your name on the title: the loan never comes due, and nobody can require you to make a payment.
- Financial Assessments: Lenders conduct a thorough review of your income and credit history to ensure you can comfortably afford your ongoing property charges. This step protects you from taking on a loan that does not fit your long-term reality.
- Non-Borrowing Spouse Rules: If one spouse is 62 or older and the other is younger, specific safeguards allow the younger spouse to remain in the home after the primary borrower passes away, provided ongoing property obligations are met.
If you want to read more about consumer protections and guidelines, I recommend downloading our free educational resource available on our Reverse Mortgage Guide page.

Question 3: Are You Comfortable with Negative Amortization and Equity?
The third question touches on something that often causes initial hesitation: negative amortization.
Because a reverse mortgage allows you to stop making monthly principal and interest payments, the interest and FHA mortgage insurance are added to your loan balance each month. When you receive your monthly statement, you will notice your loan balance growing larger over time.
For some people, seeing that balance increase can feel unsettling. It is vital that you look at the bigger picture:
- Trading Cash Flow Today for Future Equity: You are choosing to keep cash in your pocket today: money you would otherwise spend on mortgage payments or out-of-pocket expenses: in exchange for utilizing some of your home’s equity.
- Property Appreciation: While your loan balance grows, your home’s value has historically appreciated over the long term. Furthermore, modern lending guidelines are much more conservative than they were decades ago; lenders typically loan a much smaller percentage of your home’s value (ranging from 30% to 50% depending on your age), leaving a substantial buffer.
- Protecting Your Heirs: Adult children often worry that the bank will take the house and leave nothing behind. In reality, the home stays in your family’s name. When you permanently leave the home, your heirs can sell or refinance the property, pay off the reverse mortgage balance, and keep 100% of the remaining equity. If the loan balance happens to exceed the home’s value, they can simply sign the deed over to the lender and walk away without owing a single penny.
A Personal Note from Me to You
I always tell my clients: A reverse mortgage is meant to relieve financial stress, not create it.
If looking at your monthly statement and seeing a growing loan balance is going to cause you sleepless nights and constant anxiety, then a reverse mortgage is simply not right for you. Peace of mind is far more valuable than any financial product.

Let’s Explore Your Options Together
If you are ready to explore these questions in greater detail and want straightforward, honest answers tailored to your situation in Colorado, I invite you to reach out. There is never any hard-sell approach here: just friendly, transparent guidance.
You can visit us online to Start a Conversation or give me a direct call at 303-516-2748. I am always here to help you make an informed, confident decision for your retirement.
