Are Reverse Mortgages Expensive? The Real Cost Breakdown, Bucket by Bucket

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This post is related to the following podcast we did: Are Reverse Mortgages Expensive? A Cost Breakdown, Bucket by Bucket

Have you heard that reverse mortgages are expensive?

I have heard that question throughout my 23-year career in reverse mortgages. It is a fair question, especially when you are carefully protecting your retirement savings and home equity.

But before we call any mortgage “expensive,” we need to compare it with something similar. A traditional forward mortgage requires monthly principal and interest payments. A reverse mortgage is built differently.

An FHA-insured reverse mortgage, also called a Home Equity Conversion Mortgage or HECM, is the only type of mortgage that allows you to remain in your home for the rest of your life without a required monthly mortgage payment, as long as you meet the loan responsibilities.

That unique benefit comes with a unique cost structure. In this article, I will explain those costs one bucket at a time so you can decide whether a reverse mortgage makes sense for your situation.

My goal is not to pressure you into a decision. My goal is to give you the facts, explain the tradeoffs, and help you make an informed choice.

First, how does a HECM reverse mortgage work?

With a HECM, you keep the title to your home. You borrow against your home equity, but you do not have to make required monthly principal and interest payments.

You may choose to make voluntary payments if you wish. Otherwise, interest is added to the loan balance over time.

The loan generally becomes due when the last borrower permanently leaves the home. It may also become due if you do not meet your responsibilities, such as paying property taxes and homeowners insurance.

You must continue to:

  • Live in the home as your primary residence
  • Pay your property taxes
  • Pay your homeowners insurance
  • Maintain the home
  • Keep your name on the title

You can learn more about the basic structure in my explanation of how reverse mortgages work.

Now, let’s look at the three primary cost buckets.

Bucket 1: The upfront mortgage insurance premium

The first and most misunderstood cost is the upfront mortgage insurance premium.

For an FHA-insured HECM, this premium is 2% of the home’s value, up to the FHA lending limit. The lending limit discussed in my podcast is $1,249,000.

For example, if your home is worth $600,000, the initial mortgage insurance premium would be:

2% of $600,000 = $12,000

This money does not go to me or my company. It goes to FHA and into an insurance pool.

That insurance helps provide several important protections.

1. Guaranteed access to your available funds

The FHA insurance helps guarantee that you will continue to have access to the money available through your reverse mortgage. This can be especially important if you choose a line of credit or scheduled payments.

2. Non-recourse protection

A HECM includes non-recourse protection. This means that if the loan balance eventually becomes greater than the value of the home, you, your estate, and your heirs are not responsible for paying the difference.

For example, suppose the reverse mortgage balance is $600,000, but the home is worth only $500,000 when the loan becomes due. The $100,000 difference does not become a personal debt for your family.

The mortgage insurance helps protect the lender in that situation. Your heirs can sell the home or make other arrangements without being required to pay the shortfall from other assets.

You can read more about this protection in who owns the home with a reverse mortgage.

3. Access to HECM interest rates

Mortgage insurance also helps make the FHA-insured HECM structure possible at its interest rates.

In the episode, I discussed HECM rates in the 6% to 6.25% range, approximately three-quarters of a point below a conventional 30-year mortgage at that time. Proprietary reverse mortgages without FHA mortgage insurance may carry rates in the 9% range, and they do not provide the same guarantee of access to available funds.

So, is the upfront mortgage insurance premium a cost? Yes, it is.

But it is not simply money disappearing into a lender’s pocket. It helps pay for the protections that make the HECM different from other loans.

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Bucket 2: The lender origination fee

The second bucket is the origination fee. This is the lender’s compensation for preparing and completing the loan.

Unlike some mortgage fees, the HECM origination fee is limited by HUD’s formula:

  • 2% of the first $200,000 of the home’s value
  • 1% of the value above $200,000
  • A maximum of $6,000

For example, a $300,000 home could have a maximum origination fee of $5,000:

  • 2% of the first $200,000 = $4,000
  • 1% of the next $100,000 = $1,000
  • Total = $5,000

A $400,000 home reaches the $6,000 maximum. Even if the home is worth $700,000, the maximum remains $6,000.

However, the maximum is a ceiling. It is not automatically what you must pay.

Depending on the loan and the amount you receive, I often reduce the origination fee. I also show you exactly what I am charging so you can review it before moving forward.

Transparency matters here. You should never have to guess what a lender is earning or what a fee represents.

Bucket 3: Third-party closing costs

The third bucket includes the other services required to complete a mortgage. These costs are paid to third-party providers, not kept by the lender.

They may include:

  • Home appraisal
  • Title insurance
  • Settlement and closing services
  • Credit report
  • Recording fees
  • Flood certification
  • Other smaller closing charges

For the loans I handle, these costs are typically between $2,400 and $3,000, depending on the property and circumstances.

There can be additional costs in special situations. For example, if your home is held in a trust, an attorney may need to review the trust documents. A leased solar panel agreement may also require legal review.

The good news is that these costs are generally rolled into the loan rather than paid out of pocket at closing. Some lenders require borrowers to pay certain items in advance. I do not require you to prepay the appraisal and credit report simply to receive a quote.

For more detail, see what the closing costs are on a reverse mortgage.

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The separate counseling cost

There is one important exception to the costs that are generally included in the loan: HUD-required independent counseling.

Before you sign the final loan documents, you must complete a counseling session with an independent, HUD-approved counselor. The counselor does not work for me or for the lender. The purpose is to make sure you understand:

  • How the reverse mortgage works
  • The costs involved
  • Your responsibility to pay property taxes and insurance
  • The requirement to maintain the home
  • The primary residence requirement
  • What happens to the loan when you permanently leave the home

Counseling usually costs between $150 and $200, although the fee may vary. In some need-based situations, the cost may be waived or rolled into the loan.

I strongly encourage you not to sign reverse mortgage documents before completing counseling. Counseling is there to protect you, not to create pressure.

I also recommend that you do not provide your Social Security number to multiple lenders just to receive a quote. A lender should be able to explain the basic numbers without pulling your credit simply to start a conversation.

You can read more in why reverse mortgages require a housing counselor.

The ongoing mortgage insurance charge

The upfront mortgage insurance premium is not the only mortgage insurance cost. A HECM also carries an ongoing mortgage insurance charge of 0.5% of the loan balance per year.

For example, if your loan balance is $100,000, the annual mortgage insurance charge would initially be about $500. Because the balance can grow over time, the amount may also increase.

Interest is also charged on the loan balance. If you do not make voluntary payments, the interest and mortgage insurance are added to the balance. That is one of the most important tradeoffs to understand.

A reverse mortgage can improve monthly cash flow because there is no required monthly mortgage payment. At the same time, the loan balance generally grows over time. I will show you an amortization schedule so you can see how that may affect your balance and remaining equity.

A note for Colorado veterans

There is no VA reverse mortgage. However, I am a veteran myself. I served in the U.S. Army from 1983 to 1986 and was stationed in Germany.

For any veteran who completes a reverse mortgage with me, I provide a lender credit for the appraisal and title insurance. The appraisal may cost approximately $650 to $750, and title insurance is typically around $900. Together, the benefit is roughly $1,500, depending on the actual charges.

This offer has no deadline and no “act now” requirement. You still complete counseling and follow the same process as every other borrower. The lender credit simply reflects my way of saying thank you for your service.

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So, are reverse mortgages expensive?

A HECM reverse mortgage does have meaningful costs. The upfront mortgage insurance premium can be substantial, the origination fee is regulated but still significant, and third-party closing costs add to the total.

Most of these costs can be included in the loan, but that does not make them free. They use some of your home equity, and interest may accrue on them over time.

The better question is whether the costs are reasonable in light of the benefits you need.

For some homeowners, eliminating a required monthly mortgage payment may provide valuable breathing room in retirement. Others may appreciate the flexibility of a line of credit or the protection of non-recourse financing. For someone else, the costs may outweigh the benefits.

A reverse mortgage is not right for everyone. I am personally committed to explaining both the advantages and the limitations so you can decide without pressure.

If you would like to explore your options, I invite you to review our HECM reverse mortgage information or contact me directly. I will walk through the numbers, explain the responsibilities, and give you time to make an informed decision.

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I absolutely love what I do - working with senior homeowners to help them live a more comfortable, flexible and secure retirement. I have the absolute best customers in the world, and even though I worked in the forward mortgage business for a number of years, I could never go back to doing conventional loans. I'm a 100% reverse mortgage specialist.

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My wife and I are retired and had a mortgage that was quite high. We contacted Bruce regarding a Reverse Mortgage and were pleased with his knowledge and experience. He made the whole process very easy and explained everything along the way. Since then, I have had a couple of questions and contacted him regarding the RM. Bruce has always been very responsive and returned our calls within minutes. We couldn't be happier having used Bruce for the Reverse Mortgage and highly recommend him.

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Bruce has been serving my interest over and above what one might expect during the whole process of handling my reverse mortgage dating back to 2010 and continues to be available at present whenever a question may arise. He is one of the most reliable, trustworthy and knowledgeable experts regarding reverse mortgages that I have had the privilege to do business with! I would highly recommend Bruce to anyone who is considering a reverse mortgage. Thank you Bruce!

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I met Bruce from a referral who just love what he did for them on their Reverse Mortgage, So I contacted Bruce and told him my story and he came up with a great Reverse Mortgage for me and my needs and now I am living good and not worrying about Finances anymore. He had it done in a timely manner. If you are looking for the MAN to help you get the best Reverse Mortgage you need to call him and hope you let him help you.

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Bruce did our original reverse mortgage and has also refinanced it twice. He works hard to get the best deal possible while making it as easy for us as possible. When our first refinance received a low initial appraisal, Bruce helped the appraiser find better information and increase the appraised value. He's the best.

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I was hesitate about getting a reverse mortgage until Bruce Simons put my mind at rest. He is easy to work with, extremely knowledgeable and efficient. Things get done and he will make sure that you understand every part of the process. I interviewed several other people and he was hands down.....The only choice.

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Doing a Reverse Mortgage is a major decision, when working with Bruce he came out personally to go over every thing in detail, there was no pressure to finalize the transaction, I had even put the loan on hold for awhile even though I had locked in my rate, I had called Bruce off and on for a few weeks to ask questions that I had concerns about and he was always available to talk to me. In the end it gave me time to feel comfortable about my decision to move forward with the Reverse. Bruce was very pleasant to work with and would certainly recommend Bruce if you are going to consider a Reverse Mortgage.

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Bruce Simmons at American Liberty is one of the best in the reverse mortgage industry. I have known and worked with him for years and he always does a great job. You are in good hands with Bruce and know that he will take good care of you or your loved ones every step of the way.

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Best thing I ever did! Bruce Simmons at American Liberty Mortgage is the best. He is always there to answer your questions, and can easily explain the whole idea of a Reverse Mortgage. He takes the time and goes through the entire process with you. It worked out so well for me. Thank You Bruce!

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We had researched Reverse Mortgages for 5 years and after hearing about Bruce Simmons and meeting with him, we finally decided to move forward with the Reverse Morgage. It has been over a year now and we are still very pleased with our decision. We think Bruce is very professional, knowledgeable and honest. Thank you, Bruce, for all your help.

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I first met Bruce Simmons 2017. I found him on the internet. I was looking for someone local. I called him and explained I was only looking into doing a reverse mortgage, so I did not want him to think this was something I was ready to do. Bruce was friendly, very open about the basics of a reverse mortgage. Bruce came to my home and presented the figures and other details that he could offer. The first thing that impressed me was this was not a hard sell, more of a informational meeting. He was very open about all of the details, and answered my questions without hesitation. What really was evident was he was establishing a relationship with me, and I realized he knew I would not take the loan at that time. There was not enough equity in my home, and I would have to bring money to the table. Although I was not ready to do a loan, Bruce assured me he is always available for questions. Four years later, I finally did do a reverse mortgage, and I couldn't be happier with having done it. I have done away with a mortgage payment which allows me to fund my retirement account with that mortgage payment. We did some much needed landscaping with our cash out transaction, and will move on to improvements inside of the house. My reverse mortgage has a line of credit, and I feel sense security knowing it is there if I need it. Bruce explained that a reverse mortgage is not for everyone, but I feel certain that he paved the way for a strategy that worked for me. I will definitely do a refinance when the time is right. I will check in with Bruce to be sure what the benefits are when I do it again.

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I have worked with Bruce Simmons for 15 years. Bruce is one of the best in the industry. He is extremely knowledgeable, kinds and detailed in what he does. His clients love working with him and trust him to help them with their Reverse Mortgage loans. I would recommend Bruce to anyone I know that is thinking about or wanting to do a Reverse Mortgage. He will always take very good care of the customers and make sure their needs are met! Class act and one of the best in the industry by far!

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My wife and I are retired and had a mortgage that was quite high. We contacted Bruce regarding a Reverse Mortgage and were pleased with his knowledge and experience. He made the whole process very easy and explained everything along the way. Since then, I have had a couple of questions and contacted him regarding the RM. Bruce has always been very responsive and returned our calls within minutes. We couldn't be happier having used Bruce for the Reverse Mortgage and highly recommend him.

google

Bruce has been serving my interest over and above what one might expect during the whole process of handling my reverse mortgage dating back to 2010 and continues to be available at present whenever a question may arise. He is one of the most reliable, trustworthy and knowledgeable experts regarding reverse mortgages that I have had the privilege to do business with! I would highly recommend Bruce to anyone who is considering a reverse mortgage. Thank you Bruce!

google

I met Bruce from a referral who just love what he did for them on their Reverse Mortgage, So I contacted Bruce and told him my story and he came up with a great Reverse Mortgage for me and my needs and now I am living good and not worrying about Finances anymore. He had it done in a timely manner. If you are looking for the MAN to help you get the best Reverse Mortgage you need to call him and hope you let him help you.

google

Bruce is one of the most professional, knowledgeable and efficient experts I have worked ŵith ever in any field. He is fast to answer and always ready to help...and he's a great guy!

google

I was hesitate about getting a reverse mortgage until Bruce Simons put my mind at rest. He is easy to work with, extremely knowledgeable and efficient. Things get done and he will make sure that you understand every part of the process. I interviewed several other people and he was hands down.....The only choice.

google

Doing a Reverse Mortgage is a major decision, when working with Bruce he came out personally to go over every thing in detail, there was no pressure to finalize the transaction, I had even put the loan on hold for awhile even though I had locked in my rate, I had called Bruce off and on for a few weeks to ask questions that I had concerns about and he was always available to talk to me. In the end it gave me time to feel comfortable about my decision to move forward with the Reverse. Bruce was very pleasant to work with and would certainly recommend Bruce if you are going to consider a Reverse Mortgage.

google

Bruce Simmons at American Liberty is one of the best in the reverse mortgage industry. I have known and worked with him for years and he always does a great job. You are in good hands with Bruce and know that he will take good care of you or your loved ones every step of the way.

google

Best thing I ever did! Bruce Simmons at American Liberty Mortgage is the best. He is always there to answer your questions, and can easily explain the whole idea of a Reverse Mortgage. He takes the time and goes through the entire process with you. It worked out so well for me. Thank You Bruce!

google

We had researched Reverse Mortgages for 5 years and after hearing about Bruce Simmons and meeting with him, we finally decided to move forward with the Reverse Morgage. It has been over a year now and we are still very pleased with our decision. We think Bruce is very professional, knowledgeable and honest. Thank you, Bruce, for all your help.

google

I first met Bruce Simmons 2017. I found him on the internet. I was looking for someone local. I called him and explained I was only looking into doing a reverse mortgage, so I did not want him to think this was something I was ready to do. Bruce was friendly, very open about the basics of a reverse mortgage. Bruce came to my home and presented the figures and other details that he could offer. The first thing that impressed me was this was not a hard sell, more of a informational meeting. He was very open about all of the details, and answered my questions without hesitation. What really was evident was he was establishing a relationship with me, and I realized he knew I would not take the loan at that time. There was not enough equity in my home, and I would have to bring money to the table. Although I was not ready to do a loan, Bruce assured me he is always available for questions. Four years later, I finally did do a reverse mortgage, and I couldn't be happier with having done it. I have done away with a mortgage payment which allows me to fund my retirement account with that mortgage payment. We did some much needed landscaping with our cash out transaction, and will move on to improvements inside of the house. My reverse mortgage has a line of credit, and I feel sense security knowing it is there if I need it. Bruce explained that a reverse mortgage is not for everyone, but I feel certain that he paved the way for a strategy that worked for me. I will definitely do a refinance when the time is right. I will check in with Bruce to be sure what the benefits are when I do it again.

google

I have worked with Bruce Simmons for 15 years. Bruce is one of the best in the industry. He is extremely knowledgeable, kinds and detailed in what he does. His clients love working with him and trust him to help them with their Reverse Mortgage loans. I would recommend Bruce to anyone I know that is thinking about or wanting to do a Reverse Mortgage. He will always take very good care of the customers and make sure their needs are met! Class act and one of the best in the industry by far!